
I woke up early, too early this morning and couldn't get back to sleep.
This time of my life, this change that is happening is forcing new rhythms into my life and that's OK but it sometimes puts me out of sync with the rest of the house.
It is a gift, a chance to see life differently and follow new paths.
Menopause, it sounds dreary doesn't it.
It isn't a happy sounding word.
Mind you none of the official words used to describe anything to do with our monthly cycle are particularly enlivening.

But 'The Change', 'The Change of Life', now that sounds exciting.
Do people still use that term?
I am sure that is how menopause was described when I was young, before it became a medical condition to be treated, ironed out flat, just another part of the life cycle to be hidden or commercialised in the sense of drug companies coming to our rescue.
The saying, attributed to Gandhi, 'Be the change you want to see in the world' has become the catch phrase of so many organisations and individuals hoping to inspire us to a better world.
Change is good, yes?
A chance to learn, to grow, to discover.
Change is an empowering word.
Change is never easy, sometimes we are dragged along kicking and screaming, sometimes bedraggled and bewildered, sometimes wide eyed and wondering.

Changes put our lives on a new footing, let us see opportunities that had been hidden, bring us to new places and new people, new understandings of others who have walked this path before.
This Change brings us closer to our mothers, brings us to a place were we can look back on the stages of our female lives and see how far we have come, lets us look at our daughters and appreciate how far they have to go.
It puts us firmly in our middle age, a time of wisdom, not the wisdom of old age yet but the wisdom of experience.
It gives us a glimpse of the journey ahead, not to frighten us by reinforcing our own mortality but to show us that we have so much more we can do.
The end of our bodies need to invest in a monthly preparation for new life gives us the chance to use that energy in a creative surge that is frighteningly magnificent but oh so wonderful.
So, '
Be the change you want to see in the world'
and you will find that
'
If one advances confidently in the direction of one's dreams, and endeavours to live the life which one has imagined, one will meet with success unexpected in common hours.'
Henry David Thoreau
It really is true.
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